The Daffodil Principle

Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, "Mother, you must come to see the daffodils before they are gone." I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead. "I will come next Tuesday," I promised, a little reluctantly on her third call.

Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and reluctantly I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn's house I was welcomed by the joyful sounds of happy children. I delightedly hugged and greeted my grandchildren.

"Forget the daffodils, Carolyn!! The road is invisible in these clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these children that I want to see badly enough to drive another inch!"

My daughter smiled calmly and said, "We drive in this all the time, Mother."

"Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears, and then I am heading for home!" I assured her.

"I was hoping you would take me over to the garage to pick up my car."

"How far will we have to drive?"

"Oh...just a few blocks, but I will drive. I'm used to this weather," Carolyn said.

After several minutes, I had to say, "Where are we going? This is not the way to the garage!"

"We are going to my garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way of the daffodils."

"Carolyn," I said sternly, "please turn around."

"It's all right, Mother. I promise. You will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience."

After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I noticed a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a hand-lettered sign with an arrow that read, "Daffodil Garden."

We got out of the car, each took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, as we turned a corner, I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight! It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it over the mountain peak and it's surrounding slopes.

The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns: great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, creamy white, lemon yellow, salmon, pink and saffron, and butter yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted in large groups so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue. There were five acres of flowers.

"Who did this?" I asked Carolyn.

"Just one woman," Carolyn answered. "She lives on the property. That is her home." Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame house, small and modest, sitting in the midst of all that glory.

We walked up to the house. On the patio, we saw a poster, "Answers To The Questions I Know You Are Asking," was the headline.

The first answer was a simple one. It read, "50,000 bulbs."

The second answer was, "One at a time, by one woman; two hands, two feet, and one brain."

The third answer was, "Began in 1958."

For me, that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman I had never met who, forty years before, had begun - one bulb at a time - to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountaintop. By planting one bulb at a time, year after year, this unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. One day at a time, she had created something of extraordinary magnificence, beauty, and inspiration.

The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration. That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time (often just one baby-step at a time), learning to love the doing, and learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.

'It makes me sad, in a way," I admitted to Carolyn. "What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal 35 or 40 years ago and worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those years? Just think what I might have been able to achieve!"

My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way. "Start tomorrow," she said.

She was right. It is so pointless to think of the lost hours of yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson of celebration, instead of a cause for regret, is to simply ask, "How can I put this to use today?"

I encourage you to use the Daffodil Principle in your own life. Stop waiting...

...until your car or home is paid off.
...until you get a new car or home.
...until your children leave the house.
...until you go back to school.
...until you finish school.
...until you clean the house.
...until you organize the garage.
...until you clean off your desk.
...until you lose 10 pounds.
...until you gain 10 pounds.
...until you get married.
...until you get a divorce.
...until you have children.
...until your children go to school.
...until you retire.
...until spring.
...until summer.
...until fall.
...until winter.
...until you die.

There is no better time than right now to be happy!!!
Happiness truly is a journey and not a destination. So...work like you do not need the money. Love like you have never been hurt, and dance like no one is watching.

Wishing you a beautiful "daffodil day!!!"